You know how every group has an unspoken social contract? Ask your bestie: “Am I the one who starts the drama, or the one who calms it down?” The answer is a direct map of your social role. I once asked this and was told I was “the emotional support goblin” because I make people laugh when they’re sad. It’s now my official title.
Ask Questions To Friends
Also, ask them: “What do other people think of me that I’m completely blind to?” This is the golden ticket. You might find out people think you’re intimidating when you’re actually just desperately shy. Or that everyone thinks you’re rich because you always offer to buy the first round, but you’re actually eating ramen for a week to afford it.
