Here’s the beautiful, slightly ridiculous truth: the verb for “to be called” is llamarse. Yes, it contains the word “llama.” No, your friend is not a woolly mammal from Peru. Unless he is, in which case, great pet, but the grammar still works the same.
The se on the end is a sneaky little reflexive pronoun. It means the action bounces back on the subject. So “Él se llama” literally translates as “He calls himself.” It’s like he gave himself a name at a self-naming ceremony. “I hereby dub thee… me.” Very dramatic. Very Spanish.
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You can also drop the “Él” entirely. Native speakers do it all the time because the verb already tells you it’s “he.” Just look at the person, shrug, and say “Se llama…” It works like magic. You’ll sound like you’ve been speaking Spanish since you were a tiny flamenco dancer.
If you want to ask “What is his name?” you flip it to: “¿Cómo se llama él?” But the most casual version is just “¿Cómo se llama?” — said with a rising, curious tone, like you’re asking about the weird smell coming from the kitchen. It’s the same phrase for “What is his name?” and “What is your name?” (formal). This is not a bug; it’s a feature. Context is king.
So, if a waiter points at a man and asks, “¿Cómo se llama?” he wants the man’s name. If a cop stares at you and asks, “¿Cómo se llama?” he wants your name, and you should probably tell him.
