So, do you give a gift for an engagement party? The answer is: Only if it feels good to you. The celebration is about love, not loot. If you’re broke, your smile and your presence are the gift. If you’re feeling generous, a tiny token of joy is a wonderful bonus.
At the end of the day, remember this: the couple is so giddy with excitement that they likely won’t remember who brought what. They will remember who made them laugh, who hugged them tight, and who danced like a goofball when the playlist hit. So just show up, be happy for them, and if you really want to, set that bottle of wine on the table. You’ve got this.