Start by applying for PIP if you haven’t already, and then gently nudge your carer to look into Carer’s Allowance. They might feel awkward about “taking money” for helping you, but remind them this isn’t a tip—it’s a thank you from the system.
Remember, you can’t get both in your own name, but together you make a dream team. And if a form asks, “Do you look after someone?” just say yes, because looking after each other is what life’s all about—even if the government calls it an allowance.